We had just been in New Zealand for about three months,getting ourselves sorted when it was confirmed Baby Number Two was on the way. I have to admit that I didn’t think of having a second child this soon. It took me a few days to get over the surprise.
Quite honestly, I was already looking forward to getting on with job hunting before I got the positive result. I was anxious about how this new arrival would affect us–emotionally,logistically and financially. The practical side of me worried about how we can possibly survive on one income with the upcoming expenses I knew having a new baby entails.
I was assured by JP it can be done–we just need to tighten our belts a bit,for the time being. With that concern set aside (temporarily),pregnancy was a bit more enjoyable. This time around,I was more attuned to my body and felt this was easier than the first one. I actually felt healthier and not as bloated. Maybe it’s because I was more active,taking care of Katie and doing housework.
Patricia (“Patty”) was born on the morning of April 5th this year. Hers was a planned C-section as my placenta was blocking Patty’s way out by just a few tiny millimeters. We didn’t have enough time to wait for it to move some more and the doctors said a VBAC wasn’t worth the risk to me or the baby. It was a bit disappointing, not having a natural birth. My midwife and I had come up with a birthing plan and I was looking forward to the experience. But life gives you lemons,right?
The one good thing I liked about this birth is that aside from my midwife (which I will talk about in a separate post), JP was in the room with me. He didn’t get to do that with Katie,so this was special, and to be honest, a little bit traumatic for him.
Once again,I fell in love as soon as she was placed on my chest. I’m sure JP did,too. I say this again, there’s no other feeling that can compare when you look at your child for the first time. Look at that beauty,guys! So healthy and gave a really loud cry too!
After the procedure,I was wheeled into my room and Patty followed shortly. I was tired, but could not manage to keep my eyes off this little girl. And that newborn smell,it’s something you won’t forget. Right,Mamas?
So here we go again,a whole new adventure with sleepless nights,nappy changes and feeding sessions. This beautiful little girl will definitely make our lives more interesting and happier. I’m a bit anxious too, thinking how I’ll handle two children. But I figure, if other moms can do it, so can I!
Thank you all for the well wishes, friends! Now time to go back to my girls.
